So there is this guy that I have known since first grade and I have always had a thing for him and recently I've been realizing just how in love with him I am. He has only had one girlfriend and he was so amazing to her and it broke my heart. He is the sweetest, funniest guy I know and we get along well, but he doesn't know about my feelings for him. Idk if I should tell him or not.. any advice?

If you love him best thing to do is let him known and express yourself and feelings before you drive yourself crazzy with building up of feelings I been with my girlfriend 4years half and most guys have hard time telling a girl they love her and depending on there ages to make sure you really love him and want to be serious with him or else he can break your heart make sure you want to get intment feelings with him before tell him

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Originally Posted by vampireluver011

Idk if I should tell him or not..any advice?

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Tell him, opportunities not taken tend to be regretted later. However, don't just profess your undying love for him all of a sudden. Sneak up on him. I had a girl in high school hand me a letter one day while sitting in band. She bared her soul describing how perfect we would be together. Had my whole life planned out. It was a bit overwhelming and completely freaked me out as I wasn't even aware she had any feelings for me at all. My response wasn't the best and things were kind of awkward after that. I also had a girl I went to elementary school with who had moved away years earlier with her family to another military posting show up at my high school graduation wanting to spend the night. That was actually scary.

So, don't come on too strong. Really depends on the guy. If he's shy, ask him to hang out sometime or go to something you both do. Tell him you enjoy his company, hope he likes you too. Or, snooker him into going to a movie as "friends" and hold his hand or something. Best to not expect an immediate response like happens in the movies. He may need to dwell on your revelation a bit. Things may have turned out differently for the letter writing gal and I had she not played all her cards all at once.

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Originally Posted by Devious11337

if u love him best thing to do is let him known and express ur self and feelings before u drive ur self crazzy with building up of feelings i been with my gf 4years half and most guys have hard time telling a girl they love her and depending on there ages to make sure u really love him and want to be serious with him or else he can break ur heart make sure u want to get intment feelings with him before tell him

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Thanks so much!

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Originally Posted by vampireluver011

Thanks so much!

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Your welcome good luck >3