Hey I have a BIG problum... ok.. right now I have GF she okk and all but I don't feel anything with her and I want to dumb her but she loves me to death AND I MEAN TO DEATH she has cut be for.. She told that if I dump her she would kill her self and I think sh would do it. I don't want that to happen to her.

So can any one help me with this... :confused::confused::confused:

Stop talking to her now only it will create big problem in future, say her you are not having any feelings for her anymore

Honestly, I don't think you are in a healthy relationship, the whole point of being in a relationship is because 2 people are willingly wanting to be with each other. How long can you be with this person to make her happy, it will end with her regardless because you will get to the point where you will feel miserable, I don't think you should cheat as I am a firm believer in karma, I think you should man up, face the situation, communicate your thoughts and hopefully she will handle the situtaion as an adult and not a child. She wanting to kill herself if you break up sounds like a very very scary person, not healthy and personally unattractive in me eyes.. what do you think?

That's kind of just weird? She won't kill herself though
That's her saying that so you won't dump her

Well I think that you should definitely dump her and maybe tell somebody that she is threatening to kill herself like one of her friend or family members or a suicide hot line. But I think what she is trying to do is make you feel like you can't leave her because it will be your burden if she kills herself. Which is a horrible thing to do and you're letting her win if you stay with her. It is a possibility that she won't kill herself and that she is just saying that to keep you around.

Just start acting different and being gross. Don't compliment anymore. Don't talk as much. Stop wearing deodorant around her and start asking her for money all the time. She'll dump you and you won't have to worry about her killing herself anymore.

It's not right or fair to stay ina relationship that's not true. It's not fair to her to have someone not care for her the way her true match would. Her scaredness shows that she knows this.

Ohhh, hiii I don't agree with Cmrshfr don't try to cheat her, just try to tell hirthe truth, that what are you felling about her, talk to her seriously, am sure she will give up...


Good luck...

You need to tell your parents and her parents before she does something bad.