Dealing with obstinate adult children
I have three adult children who have chosen to put me through an emotional wringer; I have had enough of their wanting to beat me over the head with their emotional baggage that they have decided is all my fault. I have disowned them in my will, but I need a more spiritual cleansing of this matter. I have tried on and off for the past ten years to help these kids and they come back and throw things like, "You ruined my life/childhood because you made me babysit." They didn't take into account that I worked 2 - 3 jobs to support them because their father gambled everything away. He is Jesus to them. I have had enough and refuse to be their whipping boy.