I think I might be gay. I have a girlfriend who's Godmother is dying right now. They found two lumps on my Mom's breast. What do I do? My girlfriend would be furious at me if I told her before her Godmother died and soon after. However, I do want to explain to her that she's not the problem and that it's all because of my own uncertainty. My Mom would be okay. However, to deal with that when she just found out it's possible she has breast cancer, I don't know how she'd react.

The main issue is, I'm not certain with whether I'm gay. All I know is I'm really confused with what to do.

Just curious what leads you to think that you might be gay?

If you haven't had sexual relations with a man, then just keep quiet until you do-and you really enjoy it.

Anyway, maybe you are just trying to get a lot of attention, albeit negative, from your girlfriend who is emotionally occupied with other things than you right now.

Buck up!

I'm confused about what some lumps in someone's moms breast (which may or may not be malignant) have to do with someone being gay?