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  • Dec 27, 2008, 05:19 PM
    zozo_246
    How can I get them to ask for my number?
    I am a very beautiful girl and I hear compliments all the time but the problem is no man will walk up to me and ask for my number even after they stare at me for a long time they don't and sometimes I smile to let them know they can approach me but they don't and I can't figure out what the problem is
    And I've heard many times from friends"when I first saw you I thought you were a snob :(so I tried to tune it down a noch but still no use so please tell me what to do and I don't want to make the first move so please help me if you can:confused:
  • Dec 27, 2008, 05:22 PM
    tickle

    Could be, zozo, you won't appear to be such a snob if you do approachthem first and offer your number. Old rules don't apply, if you want something go for it! You can always play the last card if you don't like what you see.

    Ms tickle
  • Jan 2, 2009, 05:40 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by zozo_246 View Post
    i am a very beautiful girl and i hear compliments all the time but the problem is no man will walk up to me and ask for my number even after they stare at me for a long time they dont and sometimes i smile to let them know they can approach me but they dont and i can't figure out what the problem is
    and ive heard many times from friends"when i first saw you i thought you were a snob :(so i tried to tune it down a noch but still no use so please tell me what to do and i dont want to make the first move so please help me if u can:confused:


    Sometimes so much beauty is a curse.
  • Jan 2, 2009, 07:16 PM
    liz28

    Instead of waiting for him to make the first move, you should do it before someone else do and you miss your chance. Sometimes some guys don't have a clue on how to ask someone out or the guts.
  • Jan 2, 2009, 07:20 PM
    ZoeMarie

    Pretty girls can be intimidating. But if you start a conversation with someone, it's less intimidating. So next time you wish someone would ask for your number just start talking to him. Then offer your number.
  • Jan 2, 2009, 08:08 PM
    Nestorian

    Well, what everyone else said, but be careful who you give your number to. And most of all heck have some fun. Don't look for a guy, go out for fun and the number stuff will more than likely happen when you least expect it.

    Give it time. And take care.
  • Jan 3, 2009, 05:50 PM
    kaitou

    I wouldn't want to give me # away to strangers, but I have received phone # from many random guys... I received 3 phone # from riding on the subway (weird, I know)... some from volunteering places, and also social events...

    The first time I got a # from someone was because I started talking to him, because there was some subway problems, which lasted for about an hour. Long story short, he gave me his # before he left the train.. and I never called.. it sort of freaked me out... (but we did have a good conversation on the subway)

    Next time I got a # from the subway, the guy talked to me first, because I had a kendo stick with me, which he was interested in.. He talked a LOT, and I just add some comment or nod and smiel.. and he gave me his # too.. but he was boring and immature.. so I never called.. and I found him freaky too

    Next I got the # from a guy that I helped while I was volunteering, I helped him quite a few times..

    Anyway, my point is each time I was just being myself, and I went in with an open mind, with no expectation. I was literally just looking for someone to talk to or to help. And I end up getting #'s.. so I would just suggest being natural, and just go talk to people.

    If they like you, and think you're interesting, they will follow up.

    A wise friend once told me that "guys don't think, they just do".. and lately I'm finding this statement to be quite true.

    Anyway.. hope this helped!
  • Jan 3, 2009, 05:54 PM
    Alty

    Most guys think that a pretty girl is out of their league, that's probably why you aren't being approached.

    I agree with everyone else, if you want to get somewhere then go up to people, start talking, let them see that you aren't a snob, but just a pretty girl that's human like everyone else.

    You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain.

    Good luck.
  • Jan 3, 2009, 09:32 PM
    Starbucks21

    Well you're a strong beautiful woman who any guy be lucky to have... Try this line

    "i think you're hot. Wanna exchange numbers and maybe go out some time"

    Make it your own, but that's pretty basic and screams I'm interested but not desperate

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