Found out something I wish I hadn't about ex!
So I was being nosy and I checked my ex's myspace and noticed he'd added a new friend. He hardly ever logs on at all... so when I saw he'd updated something I had to see. The pic of the person he added almost looked familiar but I didn't think anything of it. Well it started to bug me so I looked at the profile of the girl he'd just added and I know her! I work with her some times--like once a week! We work for the same company and she's been training with me a lot lately. We were even at the same christmas work party less than a week ago--drinking together. What a weird coincidence!
I know I'm getting ahead of myself here, but now I'm getting this sick feeling when I think that they may be getting to know each other "in that way". That's how he and I got together... he saw my profile, started talking to me through myspace and we eventuallly met up. Realistically, she's completely his type. I should know--she's a lot like me! We have a lot of the same interests, music, games, etc--that's why we got along so well! I know it's a complete coincidence... there's no way he could have known we knew each other... but now I'm obsessing. They're both single and looking... they have a lot in common. I've been doing so well, but the thought of him with someone I know and like... that's a little much! How can I block this image from my head! Maybe they're friends... but how on earth do they know each other!! Ugh!
Just for background, he and I broke up 3 months ago--he ended it with me. I went NC on him about 1 month ago. We exchanged very short, simple, "Merry Xmas" texts on Christmas day... other than that--no contact for the past month.