Sexual chemistry vs everything else
Devil's advocate question for you: Is 'sexual compatibility' *the* most important thing in a relationship?
Speaking from my own experience, at times I think this is what led my ex to seek greener pastures elsewhere, despite my being with her 'the greatest romance [she's] ever known', according to her departure letter. Also, I've dated many women whom I had a big attraction to and also seemed to like me, but said we didn't have 'chemistry'. If sex is the most important thing, does it really matter if I'm good, or devoted, perfect in every other way? And if so, should I even bother to go for conventional relationships, or emulate Hugh Hefner?