Okayy the guy I just met we text a lot. When we text I ask him some question to get to know him but he does not with me I think it just a little weird.. does he not want to get to know me or am I just overreacting?when we went out last night he acting like he really liked me.. whats up with that?

Maybe he just wants to get u in bed most guys are like that when they act like that.

When we went out on our first date he did not even kiss me or anything

That does sound weired! People differ a lot though, some people don't think to ask personal questions... for some reason LOL I've wondered about it...

How long have you known each other? Does he come a cross as a little shy?

I met him last Saturday with one of my friends and we kind of started talking becoming friends. Then he asked me out.when we went out he was a little shy he talks really quiet too

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Originally Posted by rebeccastrean22

maybe he just wants to get u in bed most guys are like that when they act like that.

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Guys only wanting to have sex with girls treat them nicely in private, and less in public.

It sounds like he's just shy.

Insteading of texting you should talk instead. This way you can actually hear his reactions and responses to your questions. This way you can get a better feel of things, you can't get this through texting.

Also, maybe this will help him open up more and feel more comfortable expressing hisself around you rather it be in person or over the phone.

Your just meet so your are just getting to know one another and whenever you have any questions about things, don't be afraid to ask.

I think he would need a chance to get more comfortable with you, and he does sound shy. Is he nice in person, respectful, considerate??

I got to ask, how old are you?

Granted, I'm young, but I never saw texting as a way of conversating with someone you just met. You can never get the emotions, the reactions, not to mention, the timing.

Call him. Or meet him. Talk to him in real time.

Yeah, calling can be a good way for you to get to know him better, especially seeing as he is shy...

But I got to disagree with the comment on texting... sure its not an actual conversation, there can be a good mix of txting, meeting etc.

Granted, texting is a good way of... saying HI, or "can you pick up the milk on the way home," but as far as having deep meaning conversations where you want to get to know someone... talking is far better.

... plus, it's easier on the thumbs.