I was cheated on now the person is arrogant and thinks it is okay and a distant memory they are still around but threaten to leave. What do I do? I still want to be with them?

You were cheated on and now the person who has cheated on you acts like it is no big deal. Is that right? Well, when they cheated, you made a choice to stay with them, which means you obviously were able to forgive them for this (but you won't forget) and accept it...

What does this person offer you that you feel you still want them in your life, besides being unfaithful (which is a plus in any person's character)?

At this point they don't offer me anything but heartache they have the opportunity to leave but are still around this just happened a week and a half ago.

So why do you still want to be with them if all they do is cause you pain?

My opinion. Leave and never look back. You are way too valuable a person to be cheated on and treated like crap. The longer you stay in a relationship like this, the more emotionally beat down you will become. Leave, NOW! Time to find a better life and a better you.

Personally in my opinion when someone cheats on me, even so if you do forgive them. They also have to realise the situation as well. If the person is going to not take it serious. What makes you think it won't happen again?

By staying with this person. Your only making yourself more and more stressed over things. And that I'm sure you don't need right now.

Are you really going to put yourself so low to the point where you settle for a CHEATER? Leave him, without a single word. This scumbag doesn't deserve anything more.

If you tolerate bad behavior, and do nothing about it, expect more bad behavior, or worse. Leave!

Hello

A cheater is one of the worst things out there in my opinion.
A cheater with no moral complex about what he/she has done is even worse.

Two options:

A: Stay and hope you can forgive second time also - and a third - a fourth - a fifth.(The person is showing no remorse, and I'm certain he/she will do it again.

B: Get as far away as you possible can, and do it fast.

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Originally Posted by lookout79

at this point they dont offer me anything but heartache they have the opportunity to leave but are still around this just happened a week and a half ago.

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If the cheater shows no remorse... then leave,get out... run run run!

To cheat is disrespectful on such a high level its ridiculous! It's a slap in the face and the cheater has just pissed all over your relationship... and on top of everything he\she has the audacity to be mean?

Its not you who has to be on your knees begging for mercy, the cheater should be doing that.

Besides, "that person has the opportunity to leave..." what's up with that??

Don't let he\she walk all over you... do yourself a favor and leave! NOW!

What are you doing?

That's like saying.

I stick my hand in the FIRE
Yeah it hurts like hell..

Should I keep doing it?


I mean come on.. I... I... can't I can't even typ I'm in shock!
That you would even ASK!

Id love to just knock you on the head and go.
HELLO!

Look love ;) leave him simple as that
You should have left him the second he cheated on you