I have been forced marriaged to a cousin in pakistan. I did not allow them to go ahead but by emotionally blackmailing me signing I said in my heart I do not accept this nikkah. I still do not accept this wedding as I do not want him to be my life partner. I now am back in England and will not go back to Pakistan, please could you tell me if this nikkah is valid or not as my heart is not accepting this nikkah and I will never be able to. Please Help!

Hi,
I am a Lawyer from Pakistan. You can make your Nikah Void if it was without your consent.
If you need any Legal advice about Pakistani Law you can Email me at
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Hey

I feel for you, I really do. I can't believe how our parents can do things like this to us guys. Their supposed to love us unconditionally, yet despite this, they conditionally love us only if we do as they say. And you, just like many other girls, gave into this tactic and went ahead with the marriage, even though your grievin about this inside.

Im not sure if its valid or not hun, but I just wanted to let you know that I feel for you and I really do hope that this culture, which is actually against Islam, dies real soon. Im 20 and I'm scared about the future, because of stories like yours. But don't worry sis, Allah knows what's inside your heart and how you feel. Get this confirmed by your local mosque.. Im from Manchester and there's one just down the road, or give them a call if you don't want to go down personally.

And I pray that your situaion gets better