Originally Posted by
openeyes
You are human like any one else and i completely understand what you are going through.
I always tend to compare my new bfs to my ex for the fact that i havent found someone that fills me like he did once not because i REALLY want him back..
and this similar feeling is probably what you are going through now.
What i learned that I feel is extremely important..is only date someone if you feel they complete you and you feel enough chemistry to last a lifetime. To the point you feel you could never get enough. Otherwise you will just be "settling".
Even though your new boyfriend is a great guy. Clearly he is just not the guy for you because if he was would you be questioning him?? Would you be thinking about you ex bf?
Im positive the answer is No.. Break up with your ex because its the overall fair action to take. Not only for him but most important for yourself.