Ok so my boyfriend broke up with me a month and a half ago, and I'm still confused he said he just has no feelings for me, but he goes on myspace to look at my profile and he hates myspace he emailled my friends about me, he said his feelings might come back and they might not, but he still says his feelings are just not there. But he is happy to message me and talk to me. I went out the other night and started dancing with this guy who turns out to be his work mate but I didn't know, anyway he walked up and took his work mate away with him. Then he messgaed my friend and said that it got him a little worried but then when he met up with her still said he has no feelings for me. I don't know what to do I'm not waiting but why can't he just give me a straight anwer my friend told him to just tell me yes or no, no in between and he hasn't said anything... I'm really confused.:confused:

It sounds like he likes you but at the same time he doesn't want to be tied down, that would explain the jealousness and the confusing behavior. He likes you he just doesn't want to be tied down. Just a thought! But coming from a guy who's heard it all LOL, if you were to ask me, I would say pursue ( if you like him too).

What a huge RED FLAG waving in your face, and you better run!

This is not rational behavior, and there is nothing confusing about he has some deep emotional issues, (jealousy, control, manipulation, an obsessive behavior ) and will bring misery, pain, and confusion, to anyone he come in contact with.

Recognize this and protect yourself.

Stop waiting for that moron to make up his mind

Make your own mind up
And leave this muffin.

He sounds young and very jelouse

Find a real man that is worth your time

Simple as that