My boyfriend and I broke up 2 months ago during an argument. Kind of a breaking point. I called him te next day to tell hm sorry and I did not wan to break up because I loved him... but I would respect his decision if he wanted to break up. He said he was sorry too but he thought we needed to take a breather and just see what happens. We haven't really had any contact since then. No giving our stuff back. He still has my key. Anyway, he saw a good friend of mine last weekend and asked about me. He asked if I was seeing anyone. He said he was thinking of calling me. My friend assured him that I was doing great and told him not to call me. Im confused!! I was doing really good. Not contacting him. I do miss him though and this kind of makes me miss him more... thinking he is maybe thinking about me. I don't know. Anyone?

No exchange of key or returning of personal items?

Sounds like he wants to keep himself in your life,but to what extent.

You can't officially move on with the memories still there.

Do YOU want to rekindle this relationship?Is it worth it?I ask because you are lost and confused,for me to assume your true intentions wouldn't be right.

Hey,

I'm sure he misses you and thinks of you, and from now on tell your friends to not inform you about these things about your ex because they seem to just be messing with your head in the wrong way. With that being said I'm not sure where your trying to go with this, or what you hope to get out of talking to him and such. Write back and if you can, maybe some more advice can be given to you then.

Take Care,
LCM

Sitting on the fence, in limbo, is not a good place to be, and no matter what he says, or does, you should have your mind made up, and getting your own life moving in the direction you want.

After 2 months of No Contact, clearly you see that any contact confuses you so, make a decision, and exhale, and stop waiting to see what he wants to do. Take responsibility for your own happiness.

This is an old thread from 2008.
Please post your own thread if you would like advice on your own situation.