Hi I'm writeing on here because I can't get my ex girlfriend out of my head... I have broken up with her for 4months now and I still think of her all the time and knowing she has a boyfriend hurts me really bad... we did have a good relationship when we went out and we both had loved eacthother a lot... but I still can't get her out of my head even though after 4month being broken up maybe its because I had given her a promise ring I don't know I just don't don't know what to do anymore... oh but I do have a girlfriend now though I like her but I still think of my ex a lot even when I'm with her its just not the same... anyone have ideas for me on what to do?

Why did you break up with her?

I broke up with her because she had cheated on me but I did forgive her

Ohhh well that's a good reason to break up with her, cheating is not cool. But if you are able to forgive her for it like you said, you could always try and talk to her about it and see about trying again.

Well I don't think that one will work now because she does have a boyfriend and I don't know I'm trying to get her out of my head... I just don't know how to though

That's true... I don't know how to get her out of her head. Time, I guess. I've been broken up with my ex now for 2 months and I still think about him for about 80% of the time I'm awake. It sucks!

Time is what you need, and plenty of it.

Could you have jumped to another g/f to fast, trying to replace what you lost? That won't work well either.

Read the stickies, at the beginning of this forum. All of them, which I know is a lot, but it should help. There is a link in my signature.

Yeah I kind of think that maybe I did go to fast into a relationship... sometimes I just don't understand girls but that's life... I always end up thinking of someone for the longest time after breaking up and this I guess is kind of worse because of being a year long... I usually only had a relationship for like 4-5months if that this one was longer and I guess love came my way and then made it really hard to not think of her... do you think I shouldn't talk to her even if she tries talking to me and if I don't talk her she gets mad.

Leave her alone, and she can be mad at herself.

Well I'm in the same situation, I broke up with my ex because we were going to different schools and I did this 8 months ago and I still like him and I recently found out he likes me but he has a girlfriend but, whatever. If she wants to talk just do some small talk. She'll get the hint if you don't as much, and you just need a little more time to think things over, and don't just go girl crazy because if you're still thinking of her it will just lead to hurt feelings with other girls. Good luck!