So... I'm dating this awesome guy, and he is so amazing and everything! The thing is we both work a ton, and so we only get to see each other on the weekend... and I know he's a great guy, but whenever I'm not around him I have these serious doubts about him being the right guy for me! But when I'm with him I have no doubts at all! I don't which feeling is real... pathetic I know! Any suggestions?

Maybe slow your lives down a bit and spend some more time together. Your heart will tell you one thing and your mind will say something else. Look at the logical side of things and try to figure out why your mind is saying what it is. He may be awesome in bed, but does he make your heart flutter with his actions the rest of the time?

It isn't pathetic it is common
Your doubts may just be fear or it could be your instincts telling you he is not the right one. For now you get to know him better and see if there is any grounds for feeling he is not right. Red flags are a sure sign he is not right.

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Originally Posted by 450donn

Maybe slow your lives down a bit and spend some more time together. Your heart will tell you one thing and your mind will say something else. Look at the logical side of things and try to figure out why your mind is saying what it is. He may be awesome in bed, but does he make your heart flutter with his actions the rest of the time?

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We haven't had sex, I feel bad making him wait! But I just want to be sure when it happens >.<

If you feel bad about making him wait, wait for him to bring it up and tell him why and discuss what his expectations are. Don't do anything you are not ready for and if he is willing to wait that can be a good thing that he cares that much about you.

Good, I was actually using that as an analogy not implying something. Sorry!

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Originally Posted by 450donn

Good, I was actually using that as an analogy not implying something. Sorry!

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Oh don't be sorry! Gosh, I understand completely! I just thought I'd point that out.