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  • Dec 19, 2008, 12:27 PM
    Kia
    Ways to stay tight
    I wear tampons sometimes on aand off my period to stay tight along with kegal exercises. So far its been doing the job. Does anyone know if this is safe or not?
  • Dec 19, 2008, 01:08 PM
    tickle

    Kia, can you explain that 'wearing tampons on and off' a little more. You don't do this during sex do you ? But I must say, drop that method of wearing tampons when not on period and keep up the kegels which is an excellent way of pleasing your lover.

    As a slight hint. I use my kegels during sex and that sends him through the roof.
  • Dec 19, 2008, 01:14 PM
    smoothy

    Wearing Tampons when you don't need them is just as effective as shoving a Zuchinni up there.

    Its all about mussle tone... and as was mentioned Keigles are key... but research them well, They are easy to do wrong, and difficult to do right.
  • Dec 19, 2008, 01:18 PM
    tickle

    Kegels can be done sitting at the computer, while you are driving a car. You can actually feel them working if you do it right. I am doing them right now.

    Smoothy, I don't know what you mean when you say they are easy to do wrong.
  • Dec 19, 2008, 01:41 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tickle View Post
    Kegels can be done sitting at the computer, while you are driving a car. You can actually feel them working if you do it right. I am doing them right now.

    Smoothy, i dont know what you mean when you say they are easy to do wrong.


    You get the wrong mussle group if you do it wrong... Its not easy to single out the correct ones. Just any mussle that stops the pee stream isn't correct.

    If you can pinch off a hotdog in your butt for example you are doing it wrong. You would be incorrectly contracting everything in the area rather than the specific mussles you want.



    Put otherwise... from whichever hand you preffer put one finger in your butt and another in your coochie. When you can clamp down on your coochie finger without clamping down on your butt finger you have it right.
  • Dec 19, 2008, 01:53 PM
    Kia

    Oh OK, what I meant was that I wear them during the day sometimes, or maybe a few hours before sex

    I thought it would help in kind've "molding" my stuff & then the kegals would make the muscles tighter also.

    I haven't heard that it wasn't safe, but just wasn't sure
  • Dec 19, 2008, 01:56 PM
    smoothy

    Research Toxic Shock Syndrome... its related to impropper Tampon usage.
  • Dec 19, 2008, 02:01 PM
    plonak

    Ouch! Shoving tampons up there when it's not needed? That must hurt really bad to pull them out when there's no blood on it... owwwwww

    Keep up with the kegals. Good luck
  • Dec 19, 2008, 02:14 PM
    Kia

    I will research that, but no it doesn't hurt lol
    I don't use big ones
  • Dec 19, 2008, 02:30 PM
    Choux

    Why do you think you are loose? Have you had children?

    I don't think you should wear tampons other than when you are on your period for several reasons. The chance of forgetting about one is more possible than during a period. That can lead to Toxic Shock or a really smelly situation.

    All you are really doing is absorbing your natural cleansing juices and drying out your vagina. That's not good if you are having sex... a dry vagina... more chance for an injury when your lover is stroking.

    Have a good day!

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