My new boufriend of 4 months recently broke up with me because he says he is in love with both me and his his x girlfriend ( mother of his 3 year old son. He calls me everyday and says he is confused. And that it is tearing him apart. How can this be possible? How can someone. Be in love with 2 people? How do I deal with this. I am in love with him I miss him but I am not begging him to get back with me because I don't want to be with someone who is confused. Should I remain friends or cut him off for good?

Cut him off. It will save you heartache and pain.

This happens a lot. People don't move on from a previous relationship before getting into another one because they don't want to be alone.

Things can change later on... but for now, leave him alone.

My husband wandered back to his X after 22 years. Boy that stank! It threw me into psychological chaos. If your partner is not finished with the relationship then you should tread with caution. Otherwise you may experience a lot of hurt in the future.
you should make yourself unavailable until the commitment is 100%
Good luck

Cut it off, as until he can make up his mind, without your influence, you both will stay confused.

Its understandable to love two people but a decision on his part, is what he needs.

Live your life without him, as he may never see the light.