I was dating some guy for about 2 years I love him a lot but sometimes I feel like if my feelings are going away for him and its hard to explain because when I hear something about him with someone else I want to cry is it love or what ?

I would say that you still have feelings for him, as that is natural. Perhaps jealous is a better word, instead of love. If you had someone and you then heard about him being with another girl, I doubt you would care as much... right?

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Originally Posted by emmyluvzd

I was dating some guy for about 2 years I love him a lot but sometimes I feel like if my feelings are going away for him and its hard to explain because when I hear something about him with someone else I wanna cry is it love or what ?

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Ask for yourself, "believe half of what you see and none of what you heard" is a great quote

You can't go by feelings. Most 'feelings' take a back seat to relationships as time goes on. Lasting love is being committed to and sharing with each other. Look at older couples that have been together for a long time and you will see that there isn't some magic romance that binds them together.

I don't think it's love, like kc said, jealousy sounds more like what you are feeling. Besides it is natural to have some emotion when you hear something like that as well as wondering IF you've made the right choice, not that all people do, but a lot of people feel that way.

Hehe and yes guys are hard to understand. :P I hardly understand them at times!

Yes even when a girl is totally fed up with a guy and hates his guts and never wants to see him again she will still have emotions like a stab in an old wound when she hears about him with somebody else.
It is good you are getting over your feelings but as I said you can't live on emotions in or out of a relationship.

I don't think they are feelings you have for him but maybe you miss his presence in your life and his company. That's much harder to get over then the actual person. Just give it sometime. It seems to me that beause you posted a question about how you feel now that you 2 are not together instead of a post asking how you can get him back your already on the path to getting over your ex.