The following took place in Iowa:
I moved into an apartment with 4 friends of mine. My roommate's dad went with us to look and the apartment and also wrote the check for our deposit as our landlord did not want separate checks and none of us had enough money to cover the full amount ($1300).
Upon moving out, we provided our landlord with an address to send our deposit to. If it matters, we do not have a copy of the document we provided for him. After 1 month had passed I contacted him asking about the status of our rental deposit and he informed me that he needed to send the check to the person who wrote the check (my roommate's father). At this point I was informed of several outrageous charges regarding things that were "damaged" in the unit, and began researching the laws regarding rental deposits.
After that, we wrote our landlord a letter stating why we thought the amount withheld was unfair and also stated that we had waited more than 30 days and had received no written contact from the landlord regarding the "problem" with the address we provided him.
My question is whether the address we provided him matters in terms of when the 30 days begins. The address we provided is our new apartment in town, and he claims it can only be sent to the person who wrote the check. He even went so far as to say that we could not take him to court because the person who wrote the check is the only person who could sue him for the amount owed. He stated then that because my friend's father could not testify in court that HE left the forwarding address, so we would not be able to win any amount back. Is that at all true?
Thanks in advance.