My ex and I had the best relationship. We started dating when we where 15 and now we're 18. I started talking to her ex friend, so she found out. So she said we can't be together right now. So it's been six months and we don't really talk and I asked her are we going to be together in the future ,and get married. She said yes, but she said I lost a lot of love. So what should I do. How do I go about this.

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Originally Posted by blizzy90

My ex and I had the best relationship. We started dating when we where 15 and now we're 18. I started talking to her ex friend, so she found out. So she said we can't be together right now. So it's been six months and we dnt really talk and I asked her are we going to be together in the future ,and get married. She said yes, but she said I lost alot of love. So what should I do. How do I go about this.

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So you dated her for 4 years (15-18) then you started talking to one of her ex-girl friends and she called the relationship off. No doubt. If I was dating a guy and found out he was secretly talking to an ex-girl friend (do you know why she is an ex-friend? What happened to make that relationship go sour?), you took a bold step by doing that and I would have called it off too. Not only did you not tell her about your new friendship but it is an ex-girl friend of hers. She hasn't really talked to you in 6 months... she is moving on and I suggest you do too. Besides 15-18... you guys are very young and have your whole lives to live. If it is meant to be then I am sure you two will be together again but live for today not tomorrow.

I agree with April! She seems to be moving on and you should prob do the same!

And like April said: you guys are pretty young, and you do have lots of years a head of you.

You live and you learn and you should've learn something from this.

No one can predict the future so don't think that your will get married. If it is meant to then it is meant to be. If not, then you move on.

What made you talk to this friend and then tried to keep it a secret?

It sounds to me like you 2 will not get back together. I believe she told you that you 2 would because she's not ready to complete let you go. She's probably off during her own thing now and keeping you on a back burner.

This happens a lot with young people like us. Our emotions are always changing and were growing up to realize who we are and who we want to be.

If she caugth you trying to get at her ex friend behind her back I can see why she said she lost a lot of love for you. You betrayed her.

You should consider moving on and if she wants you she will come back. If not it just wasn't meant to be. Don't dwell on this. You are still very young and have plently of experiences to have and new people to meet. Be patient and wait your turn for love.

Take this experience as a lessoned learned not to be sneaky with your next relationship.