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  • Dec 16, 2008, 08:46 PM
    GROOVY3
    Problems down there
    Me and my man just had sex a couple hours ago and it is extremely swollen. I know it's not a allergy problem. I usually swell, but nothing like this before. It is the worst I have ever seen it... Is it an STD or something?
  • Dec 16, 2008, 09:13 PM
    Xrayman

    Oh yea, as if we can tell if it's an STD over the internet.

    Was the session particularly rough? were you well lubricated? Did you climax? All of these will have an effect on the vulva.

    You may have what is referred to as honeymoon cystitis, (an infected urethra) you might find it hard to urinate if this is the problem.

    I'd suggest you just had a lot of rough play.
  • Dec 16, 2008, 09:50 PM
    skittles001

    Well sweat can contribute to bacteria growth, which can often result in urinary tract infections, if it burns to urinate or you feel an uncomfortable sensation urinating or seem to urinate more often, then this is likely the case. Its simple to fix a simple trip to the doctor for a test and some antibiotics will do great. But if it remains the same for any length of time that seems unusual, get to a doctor right away. As well sometimes rough sex can leave ones penis a little sore, just keep an eye on it, if it stays the same or worsens go straight to the doctor.
  • Dec 16, 2008, 09:59 PM
    Clough

    Hi, GROOVY3!

    The best and safest thing that you can do would be to go to a physician who can see you in person for a proper diagnosis. Anything else found on this site or elsewhere on the Internet can only be guesses.

    Thanks!
  • Dec 16, 2008, 10:06 PM
    TexasParent
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by GROOVY3 View Post
    Me and my man just had sex a couple hours ago and it is extremely swollen. I know it's not a allergy problem. I usually swell, but nothing like this before. It is the worst I have ever seen it... Is it an STD or something??

    Did he use a condom? New brand? Allergic to latex? That is a possibility that hasn't been mentioned. New lube? Did your man rinse the soap off his member before having sex, you could be allergic to the soap.

    You are suffering imflammation of some sort due to something, think of what might have changed.

    Anyway, the best advice was given previously, go to a doctor.
  • Dec 19, 2008, 03:11 PM
    Choux

    Sounds like he stroked waaay too long and/or waaay too hard... or you had sex more than once in that session with the above mistakes.

    There is no reason for a beginner girl at sex to have stroking more than five minutes a session. Avoid bladder infections and stress on your genitals.

    All the bad habits you set down in the beginning of your sex life will be hard to break later on when you want orgasmic, cosmic sex(hopefluly that day will come!) .

    Always remember, the female sexual experience is not like the males.

    Good Luck!
  • Dec 20, 2008, 02:12 PM
    bronzebabe

    You don't give any details, so we don't know. It might be time to be checked out by an actual doctor.
  • Dec 21, 2008, 08:51 AM
    Handyman2007
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Choux View Post
    Sounds like he stroked waaay too long and/or waaay too hard...or you had sex more than once in that session with the above mistakes.

    ""There is no reason for a beginner girl at sex to have stroking more than five minutes a session."" Avoid bladder infections and stress on your genitals.

    All the bad habits you set down in the beginning of your sex life will be hard to break later on when you want orgasmic, cosmic sex(hopefluly that day will come!) .

    Always remember, the female sexual experience is not like the males.

    Good Luck!


    There is nothing factual to support this statement. Everyone is different and where does it say she is a "beginner girl"?

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