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  • Dec 15, 2008, 10:37 AM
    princess retro
    I need my boyfriend back!
    look i was in my room i decied to text my boyfriend :)
    but when he texted me back i didnt know what to say the text message said
    that he wants to be friends
    how do u want to be friends whats the matter i said so he said he doesnt feel the same
    way he did before
    i told him to explain better because i dont understand i told him i was crying
    he told me not to cry but i just said that its too late i already started
    on monday he didnt even have the nerve to come to school the next day what happened how do i get him back?
    whats wrong with us?
    did he stop liking me from one day to another?
    OH MY GOD HELP ME I REALLY LOVE THIS KID!!!!:(:cool::):eek:
  • Dec 15, 2008, 10:43 AM
    450donn

    You are way too young to "love" this jerk. You will fall into and out of many relationships before you actually find the right person and want to marry them. Stop beating yourself up over this one. It is not worth it. Yea, I know it is easy to say. But if you look in the bright side. He wants to break up before it really gets serious and you wind up pregnant or worse.
  • Dec 15, 2008, 10:54 AM
    krzekali89
    OK, how old are you? How long were you dating for?

    If you were only dating for a month maybe two at most that kind of stuff happens. People think they like you but when they get to know you they decide your not for them. Don't take it offensively I'm sure you've done it to someone and if you haven't you will. They just aren't who you thought they were. Like I dated this one kid. Before we strted dating he was really cute and smart and he was different. When we started dating (like after 2 days) he was alll over me, super clingy, always on the phone with me, kissing me in front of my teachers. Just stuff I wasn't into so I broke up with him. Then I dated a guy who broke up with me because I had to many guy friends. It happens. People are different in a relationship then when you are just friends.

    If you've been dating him for quite some time were there any signs of problems in the relationship? Distance... not talking... anything? If not then I don't know what happened. He might of cheated, he maight have something major going on (college, close family got sick, stress). Men are jerks sometimes. You just need to move on and find someone better. If you guys are meant to be then id say he'll be back in your life soon.

    I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, I love him to death and I know he loves me. Sure we broke up once in our relationship, however we just needed to make sure that we were right for each other and after one week, we both called each other crying about how much we misse the other person. And ever since then we've been gret. (so maybe he just wants to make sure your right for him) if you don't feel that way with him then it'll never work out. Trust your heart, its usually right.
  • Dec 15, 2008, 04:16 PM
    cc_baby

    Sweetie he probably just isn't ready for a girlfriend he is a boy and boys want freedom when my ex boyfriend and I broke up I thought it was the end of the world but turns out god had something WAY better for me and now I'm spending the rest of my life with my very sexy very wonderful husband trust me it gets better just think of him as a stepping stone and when you find better then he will want you back but at that point you won't even want him:)
  • Dec 15, 2008, 08:13 PM
    babyshooter11

    Maybe he just doesn't like you. I'm sorry that sounds terrible but you need to move on because in the end you'll just be hurting yourself and no one else.
  • Dec 15, 2008, 08:17 PM
    N0help4u

    You can not make anybody love you back. You have to let him go and move on. There will be many more guys that you will fall in love with through the years. I know it hurts now but we all go through it.
  • Dec 17, 2008, 12:36 AM
    SimpleguyJoe

    Just to let you know, if he really did have feeling for you he still does they don't just go away in a flash. He was just saying that so he could put some distance between you two. So if he wants, he will come back to you on his terms. But don't waste your life waiting.

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