Am I failing as a mother?
I am a 31 year mother of two boys, a 12 and a 1 year old and I'm feeling really hopeless now... I feel as if I'm losing my 12 yr old son. He seems to want to live with his father but his father doesn't care to have him. He is becoming very difficult to deal with, he lies, he is getting in trouble at school, he is lazy and the list can go on. A little over a year ago we moved in with my boyfriend so he no longer has his own space etc. I don't know for sure what has contributed to his change in attitude if it's the move or the baby. I find myself getting angry at him all the time and I know it doesn't help, I'm just so fustrated and desperate... please help