I just don't know about this guy.
I met this really nice man. He and I hit it off right away. I've never actually met anyone before that I've connected with so well. I'm divorced and I have two kids and I've been burned to many times. I didn't even want to go down this road again but this guy literally showed up at my front door. The problem is, he is a cop, every time we see each other he is on duty. So he cannot ask me out nor can I ask him. But each time we see each other the lingering gets a little longer. One day while we were talking he told me to be safe. It struck a cord with me how sincere he was. The next time he drove two hours out of the way to look at my window, when he could have called and taken a report. He actually wore cologne that time and had just shaved. We've made eye contact, laugh at each others comment's or jokes. He seems to like my kids. But I don't know if this is just a guy being nice or if he wants to ask me out. I haven't even gotten the chance to know him. If he was interested wouldn't he have called; he has my cell number and email? He even showed up at my front door one morning just to check on my family and I. He told me he would be patrolling in my area every day and to call any time. I've also told him he could stop by and call any time as well. Am I mistaking his signs, is he just doing his civic duty?
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