OK so my friend is having some trouble.. I'm seeking advice for her.. 2 yrs ago her husband died in iraq.. it was his 2nd tour.. she has a daughter with him she is now 4 yrs old.. since then she has moved on and has remarried.. her husband now wants to adopt her daughter and make her his.. they also have a son and another daughter on the way.. she wants to know how she goes about getting her first daughter adopted my her husband now? And if it was possible?