So my boyfriend and I are deeply in love but we come to disagreements about sharing control and my lifestyle. I am a exotic dancer and model. In the beginning of our relationship he accepted it and sometimes encouraged me. But now he hates it about me and tries everything from "kidnapping" me to breaking up with me to get me not to go to work. Last night we had a talk and he told me he has a plan for me:
1. to get me stop dancing in feb. when my car is paid off
2. to get me to stop modeling next year too
3. to get me back in school
4. to get me back in ballet
And last but definitely not least...
5. TO GET ME A BUTTOX REDUCTION (WHICH HE WILL PAY FOR)
Ok all his little plans sound nice and everything and sound like the right path I should be on and I'm happy he cares about me so much to have a plan for my future but Isn't IT MY FUTURE? Aren't I supposed to decide when its time for all that. He said I'm too weak minded to make the right choices for myself and he's here to guide me.
So my question is... do I do what he says? Will I end up better off if I do? Is he really trying to help me or hisself?
And about the butt reduction. He says my butt is too big and brings too much attention. But is that reason enough to suck it out of me? I like my bottom.