I took out a car loan that in 2007 I defaulted on a couple payments. I had lost my job and was only working part time, and barley making ends meet. I spoke with the bank on many occasions asking them to please hold off that I would address the issue in the following month (january). They stated that they would then wait for me to obtain a paycheck from my new better paying job. But then in February they had sent my loan to an agency. Which I had been working with making large payments any where from $300-$800 a month to try and bring what they said was starting at about $1300 down. But after making payments such as this from February to August my loan didn't go down, and it never came out of the agency. I then got frusterated, stopped making payments such as this, and spoke with the bank demanding they take my car out of the agency. Which they never did. Now I do admit from August to October I did not make a payment at all, out of pure frusteration with my bank and the agency, I then made a $200 payment in October, they stated I had $1350 to make payment on back debt and then it would be out of the agency, now in December, I received a letter demanding the full balance due which is $12,500 or else they will bring me to court where ill have to pay the legal expense, they will guarnish my wages, stated this will hit my credit harder then brankruptcy and will sit for 21 years, and that I will never be able to have a job with finances. I am beyond my limit over this and I do not know what to do. Do I make payments on the loan still ignore the calls, and when they bring me to court at least I was making my by-weekly payments?