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All right so I dated this girl for one day and we had sex without protection and lets just say I didn't pull out quick enough, we broke up that day because she's on and off with her ex and is in love with him. 5 weeks later I hear she's pregnant and she says her ex is the baby's dady but I have a gut feeling its mine and she's just saying its her ex so he will stay and be with her. What should I do?
I'm 16 and I dated her 5 weeks ago
Listen to me, b ro, if it his, and he doesn't stay, kick his , then ask her to marry you, or at least promise to help her out, but if it turns out to be yours, propose to her, I don't care if you don't love this girl, you got her pregnant, you didn't use a rubber, and you didn't pull out, its your own damn fault if its your baby and you have to take reponsibility. You understand, and if you don't take my advice, you may not regret it, but there will be somthin deep inside you, and it will eat away at you, the guilt, the guilt over making that poor girl raise a child by her self, listen, and remember, a good man once said, a mans got to have his limitations, that quote changed my life, and hope fully what I've said will change yours
What is it and silly teens, what PULL OUT< pulling out is not a method, does not stop the girl from getting pregnant, there is sperm in all of the early fluid.
So stop the silly "pull out" talk, it is obviouis you don't know enough about sex and how they get pregnant to be having sex.
And for heavens sake, you don't marry someone you don't love and to be honest esp not at 15.
At this point what's done is done and you have to deal. Truth be told if you she's only been back with her boyfriend for 5 weeks it is very possible the baby is yours and your right she may very possibly be saying it is her bf's so she won't be alone but that is because she is scared that because you were such a short term fling that you won't be there and her boyfriend would leave her if its not his. She is just as if not more scared than you are so you need to talk to her reasure her you won't turn from her if she still denies it then leave it at that but if she does come to you no matter when you need to man up and be there for her... and for thd future try condoms.
Listen fr chuck, If he didn't love her, then why did he have unpretected sex with her, answere that
whgrappler, weather or not you love this girl, you got her pregnant, its your job, as a man, to father that child, do you understand
People have unprotected sex regardless of love or not. In fact, if you love someone, you should do the responsible thing and make sure that you DO have protected sex.Quote:
Originally Posted by AManWithNoName
What I said was to make a point, if he decides to have unprotected sex with a girl he doesn't love, he better be prepared to take the consiquencesQuote:
Originally Posted by xxariesxx
Don't be silly always protect your willy!!
Seriously you need to talk to her, in person is the best and do NOT leave that girl alone with a kid it's just not right you still have options abortion is one so go over it.
You had a one night stand and possibly got the girl pregnant. You were not dating, you took on the adult responsibility of having sex and did so the first time you went out. That is a one night stand.
You're going to have to grow up real fast here, whether this is your child. All three of you are children and you have made another.
The first thing that both you AND this girl need to do is to tell your parents. If she hasn't already, she needs to tell her Mom and Dad and they need to start focusing on the baby.
I don't know what to tell you to do, other than grow up, stop having random sex with people, and become the man that you've made yourself.
Talk to your parents.
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