Ok so I had a girlfriend who was living with me for all most 9 months of a 1.3year relationship. I know we moved to fast to move in together but she really didn't have any place to go. So a month agow it got to a breaking point in our relationship. I ended up breaking up with her. Now that were broken up she is living with a friend of her's. I didn't talk to her for a few days. After that she started to call me wondering if I could come hang out with her... I thought to myself that it wasn't a good idea but after some thinking I went anyway. It felt like nothing had changed but everything had. A day or so later I realized that I had made a horrible mistake and was being very selfish and only worrying about me in the relationship. So I told her how I felt and asked her if we could work on our relationship so that we could be back together. She agreed that we both need to change key things in our relationship and that it wouldn't happen over night. So a few more days go by, we see each other 1 of the 4 days. Everything seems to be going OK until she tells me that she met a guy. I was cool with that but ever since she started talking to him she doesn't really seem to have time for me anymore. Then a week agow she calls me to chill. I come over we chill I'm about to leave and she grabs me and throws me on her bed and has sex with me. I was kind of in aww that it happened. After that I got these feelings that we were together again and I started acting really controlling because she was talking to that other guy. She assured me that nothing was going on with him and that she didn't really know what she wants right now. So I say that's fine I'll give you your space to figure out what you want. I don't call her for a few days then she calls me askes me to come over and talk to her and the same thing happens we end up having sex again. Now I'm really confused what she wants. I mean does she just want me for my thing or does she actully have feelings for me. I just feel like I'm stuck in the middle of something that I have no control over.. any help or suggestions would help me out a lot
Thanks everyone