2005 was a beautiful year for me. I had reuntite with the person I wanted to marry and spend my life with since 2000 it didn't happened because he was married when I first came to this country. I knew the person he was back then, but since we where young I thought he might've changed and matured. Come to know he didn't, he was seeing already a person and come to know she had something to do with his divorce, she had 4 kids from different men and she was a Nuyorican, (puerto Rican) born in New York. She was a wild 40 year old that didn't work and was always on her thing going out and who knows what else, They were 3 years of hell cause I didn't come to know anything until the man I loved lost his company and lost his home, When he had his Co. he had it made, had money and many friends, I was the same with him, I didn't care about what he had, cause in the year 2000, he had nothing so I really loved him for the person he was with me and not for what he had, Im very independent and always worked and supported myself, didn't care about diamonds or trips. I just wanted his unconditional love and honesty. 2008 he lost everything now we are living together and we are trying to forget about the past and build a new life together, I have this person from his past (a summer fling) that will not stop e.mailing him and sending him messages saying how much she misses him, I'm tiered of still dealing with issues like these, I know for a fact he's not seeing anyone, but I'm not that sure if she's stopped or :confused:... I don't know what to think I know where this person works and where she hangs out, but I've had so much drama I can't stand it anymore, I would like to begin a fresh start but HIS past hunts him and Me!! I really don't know what to do... PLease people advise me on my situation, Me personally can give excellent advice to anyone who has an issue, but Me!? On my life Ireally can't decide what to do best... :([