My child by love not birth
I have a son that will be 6 in January and he was taken away from his "egg donor" I call her back in aug of 03, she has not see him since before he was 2 and I am the only mother he knows. I tried to set a motion to terminate her rights, but was advised by HKI that this would only re-open her case so she could get visits. She has recently had 2 other kids which only one is in her custody. I speak to her every once in a while, she still does not see him. She is behind over 10,000.00 in child support... all I want is for her to sign a step parent adoption form or find a way to make sure that she can't just decide she is done with the drugs and wants to have a relationship with my son! I just wish there was a way I could make sure that she never gets to see him until he is old enough to realize that she abandoned him and chose drugs over him. She smoked meth while pregnant with him, but thank god he is smart as could be and is doing great right now in life and if she were to come in and say she's his mom, it would blow his mind and tare his world apart... if anyone knows what I could do, help.