My girlfriend has asked for a break!
I have been with my girlfriend for 7 years.
7 weeks ago she went out with her best friend who in turn called me afterwards and said how much my g/f had spoken about me and how much my girlfriend had said that she loved me and that she was talking to her friend about how she wanted to marry me!!
5 weeks ago my g/f said she wanted to take a break for a while stating that she didn't feel that burning desire to be with me that she once did and she has made no attempt to get in contact since then.
Last weekend we met at a mutual friends engagement party where she told me I was the most important person in her life and that she loved me more than anything, she was also pretty much all over me but when I dropped her home... "I still think we need time apart.." because she felt happy that she didn't have to plan things around me... and again I hear nothing.
I e-mailed her saying if she would like to meet, she gave me excuses and I could see the wood for the trees so I cancelled before she disappointed me...
I then called her last week and she pretty much went on for an hour about how amazing her life was without me... going on about how she is out every night with different friends to different places etc etc and that she would probably not be able to see me till the new year, which secretly annoyed me as it is her birthday on the 19th of December...
Anyway I'm going on... the underlying thing is that for 7 years I never cheated on he. I am not at all possessive i.e. I never EVER said you can't go here or there... and when we were together it was amazing! But towards the end it was just so hard to get her to come and see me... I had a feeling like she didn't love me anymore...
I just don't understand what I did wrong!!
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!