Hi, I'm chelsea and I'm 16. I'm 5`8 and I weigh about 143. I'm very self conscience and I hate myself. I think I'm the ugliest fattest thing on this earth. I use fake tanning products every 2 days so I can look skinny (tan makes you look skinny). I have bad black heads on my nose. I have bad celuliteon my thighs. I hate my shape of my body it doesn't go go together. I'm so fake on the outside. I just want to be me. I die my hair all the time. My natural color is read. I need help. I some times eat and then think to myself that I should have but that's only a few times a week. I want to be beautiful and I want to lose a lot of weight but health and fast. I want to be an actress but this is holding me back. I know sometimes I'm pretty but only when I have tons of make up on. I want to be able to take a shower and not do anything with my hair or face. Help me. How do I lose weight fast!? :(

Every teenager wants to be the person in a magazine or on t.v, but in reality they are not perfect either they have air brush work done to their pics, or they have personal trainers, or even surgical help. So just be happy with yourself and thank God for making you who you are.

You don't need to lose weight fast. You don't sound fat at all. It sounds like you just have low self- esteem, which isn't all that odd seeing how you're in high school. The best thing you can do is start with skin care. Buy something to exfoliate, tone and cleanse and make sure you have a moisturizer. You could even use a tinted moisturizer and then you wouldn't need to wear a ton of makeup. Let me know if you have questions. I was in your shoes once.

This happens to tons of girls in school I was 5"2" at 130 and looked great thought I was fat all the time but I wasn't, now at 23 I'd do anything to get back to that size, I'm sure I won't however its part of growing and maturing, right now all the guys and everyone wants to be skinny, but in a few years all that's going to change your body will change you will gain but it'll ge in good areas and the guys start to like curves as they grow too. You have to be beautiful 140 and 5"8" if you ask me your almost to small. Don't worry about the number worry about how you feel, and believe me I've have been there done that I was taking diet pills at 14 that freaking crazy no reason for it. Look at what you do have not just what society wants you to look like. We are not Boney models who walk the runway and frankly that stuff is nasty lots of guys don't like seeing ribs in your back you know. Lol well I hope this has helped somewhat good luck in your beautiful future.
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Dear loserfacexduh ( <--- how did you come up with that name?),

1.) For you height I believe that you are at the perfect weight.

2.) As for your black heads, they can easily be romoved. A lot of brand name cosmetics have products that specialize in that.

3.) Fake tanning products are better for your skin then the sun and tanning beds. UV rays wrinkle your skin over time so I think it's smart that you use those products.

4.) Excersize can prevent cellulite. If and when you do excersize, make sure you target your thighs and buttocks. Oh and FYI, most women and I don't care how super-model they look, will have cellulite whether it be very little or extreme.

5.) There is nothing wrong with dying your hair. Too much dying can cause it to become dry and brittle though. I find that red hair is gorgeous.

If you feel beautiful then you will look beautiful. Confidence is the key. People will notice you when you show confidence. Please don't feel discouraged because there are so many different looking people in this world and NO ONE is the most beautiful or the most ugly.