I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 months now. My girlfriend is Polish about a month ago she said that after Christmas she was going back to Poland to see her family for a week. Three weeks ago she text me saying that she had something to tell me but thought I was going to be mad. When we met later on that day she explained that she had booked her tickets to Poland but would be gone for 3 weeks.

On the 19th of November she went to the airport and got on her flight. I was really upset, but I understood why she had to go. I promised her that I would text her and that I would wait for her and I have kept my promise. However over the last week I have been texting her I have got no replies.

I don't want to keep texting her until the point where she thinks I am being to possessive, but I just want to know if she is all right.

I have messaged her on Facebook and got no replies and I am really stuck for ideas. If anyone can shed some light on the whole thing I would gratefully appreciate it.

She might just need some space to clear her head.

Its possible she might not have any credit or access to a PC

So would you say it was a good idea to call her or not.

Well if it was me id just tex and say ''when you get back would you like to catch a movie together and catch up,see you soon hope your having a good time,call me''
And leave it at that,I wouldn't ring you might scare her off

Good luck hun

Thank you for your help and advice, I felt that it really helped me. I hope you take care and speak soon.

I have been to poland and there is not much internet over there.

Not in every household that's for sure.
And it is normal 90% of the time dialup anyway.

So that could be a reason why she is not talking to you.

So send her one last message on Facebook.

Say that. You hope she is having a great time. You hope to hear from her soon.
And hope you are safe

And that's it. Don't send anymore text. Just leave it like that

If she replys cool if she does not then well you get the idea.

All the best