Getting back together with an Ex girlfriend
Recently Ive spent a lot of time with an ex girlfriend. It's been over a year since we dated. The few times we've been together, it's been really good. We've done a lot of hugging, kissing, and holding hands. The problem is she never was good with relationships. I haven't been calling her a lot. It's been two weeks and we've hung out three times. The truth is I'm scared to call her a lot and ask her to go out with me a lot because I'm scared of getting hurt again. She's the type of girl that if I ask her to talk about where we stand, it turns her off, so I haven't. She's a really high maintenance girl that likes to let things happen as they come, and not to plan it. I'm not the same type of guy. I am still in love with her though, but I feel like the relationship wouldn't work so I am more interested in not getting hurt than getting back together with her. What is my best play? Is there anyway I can figure out how much she cares without letting my guard down?
P.S. Ive posted about this girl before when I was having problems with her about six months ago... so that might make it more interesting