So me and my boyfriend decided to go on a break a few weeks ago. First we did it for about three days and then he said he missed me and missed knowing if I was okay and everything.we were getting along really well(besides a few fights we did before the break too)the reason for the break was he didn't know if he wanted the responsibility of a girlfriend. So after another few days I asked if he was still confused and he said yes so I said maybe we should go on a break again because I didn't want to be lead on. Now its only a week later but basically he said he wanted about a week to think things over and I was telling him if he doesn't know if he wants me now I don't know when he will because he keeps saying he misses me but misses his space as well. Now he decided we should go on a date this weekend and that he wants to start from 'scratch' as in being single, then dating, then being in an actual relationship. We've been in a relationship for 9 months but I'm not sure if this is even a good idea. I'm also worried because he's leaving for 2 weeks soon coming back for a week then going away for another month and a half. Does anyone have experience with this or see it as a good thing?
