Im 11 and I need to find my dad because my moms single and she can't raise me by herself, she gets stressed out easily and she never tells me my dads second name all I know is that he is called Joe! Please Help me! :(

Sorry if you mom wanted to find your dad she would, For some reason he or her did not want him around. And since he has not contacted you or her, it is obvious he wants nothing to do wth you. ( sorry but being frank is sometimes the only way)
If she wants help she needs to make sure there is a child support order in place and force him to pay child support.

And he may have help get your born, but he is not a dad,

And to be honest you asking about him all the time may be hard on her, she may have been hurt by him badly and want nothingto do with him, You asked she said no, so go on with life, help around the house, make life easier for her all you can.

Sorry but I forgot to say my mom met him when she was 15 he was in town for a couple of days and when he left my mom found out she was pregnant with me! She didn't get married to him and she wasent even his girlfriend! She was just leaving high school, she said to me one day she would love to meet him so don't say she didn't want him around! I haven't met him before in my life and the last time see saw him was when he had braces! So just think and next time please give me a helpful answer! Sorry for this rude message but it was the only way I could tell you all!