Is this a good reason to be. Bothered?
Ok well, I am never the kind of girlfriend that would be annoyed by my boyfriend hanging out with another girl. BUT my boyfriend has broken my trust before a couple times when I have gone out of the city he has developed a liking towards whichever girl he ends up talking to while I'm gone. One time it was my best friend! And he told her straight up that he liked her while I was away, she told me when I got back and he never said a word about what went on while I was gone.
So I went away this past weekend and he hung out with this girl.. alone.. and they went and got milkshakes.. and the night before they were sharing seat belts and what not when they were with a group.
So usually I would not care but since he seems to like the girls that talk to him... should I be worried about this latest incident?
I never can seem to hide when something is bugging me and he can always tell when there's something on my mind, so I want to know if I should be bothered because if he asks I will have to explain what's on my mind... will I look like an idiot?
[we've been together 3 years, we're in grade 12]