What to do after a nasty break-up
Kind of new to this web-site so not sure how everything works but I will try:
I dated this girl for well over 4 years. We had a few break-ups but always ended getting back together. Well recently I noticed she started acting different. Everyday I asked her if everything was OK and tried my best to make her feel better but nothing worked. So one day she came out and told me she wasn't happy and wanted a break. After a long conversation we agreed that a break from each other was a good idea. Well a week after the break-up I found out she had been talking to a guy for well over a month. I was furious and lit up her phone. I demanded to know what she had been doing and she just told me I couldn't handle the truth. I went crazy and started calling her every name in the book. She then proceeded to return the favor. Well 3 days later I felt kind of bad for what I said about somebody I had care for so much and texted her telling her I was very sorry for what I said and just wanted her to be happy. (pretty much giving myself a reason to say something to her) She texted me back saying she wants to get a few things off her chest but I haven't heard from her. So I guess I have a few questions.
1) Should I found out what happened or just let everything go?
2) Was it right for me to say the nasty things I did and should I feel bad about them
3) Does anyone have any advice on what activities I can do. Im stuck in college far away from friends and family without knowing anyone or anything to do because I did everything with her.
Any comments will be appreciated