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  • Nov 30, 2008, 06:10 PM
    bullet4mygrace
    What do I dooooo?
    Okay... so I have a girlfriend who I love to bits, I mean like every time I see her it automatically puts a smile on my face.
    But recently she's become very unhappy at home and she hates her family and is beginning to hate her friends and says I'm the only person that makes her happy
    She's got a lot on her mind at the moment and is sick and hasn't been feeling herself lately and she said she dosen't want to drag me down with her, but I told her I love her too much and couldn't leave her and quoted guardian angel by the red jumpsuit apparatus that I'll be there for you through it all even if saving you sends me to heaven and I honestly mean that so I've convinced her to let us stay together but she still is upset about everything and fears that she'll hurt me so I was just wondering what can I do to make her better?
    Do I confront her family and tell them how they are neglecting her?
    Be as good a boyfriend as I can and hope it all comes good?
    Or what?
    I don't know what to do and I never want to lose her and I'll do whatever it takes to keep her as my girlfriend

    Thanks for any advice (:
    Xxx
  • Nov 30, 2008, 06:37 PM
    Forever2b

    That's so sweet.
    She's lucky to have you
    Your doing a good job by not leaving her and always being there for her, and letting her know that
    Make sure she never feels alone
    Talk to her about talking to her family
    See how she feels about it
    Do things together that you both love
    Distract her from all the negative things

    I think she'll be fine as long as she has you
  • Nov 30, 2008, 06:43 PM
    bullet4mygrace

    Thank you (:
    I do (: I always make sure that I phone her everyday for like two hours
    I have talked to her about it she tried herself and they didn't listen to her and we kind of talked about me trying but didn't really get anywhere
    Thank you for the advice :D
    I'll try that (:
    I hope so! (:
  • Nov 30, 2008, 06:44 PM
    Forever2b

    Well good luck with everything
    She's a lucky girl!
  • Nov 30, 2008, 06:46 PM
    bullet4mygrace

    Thank you very much! :D
    Nah I'm the lucky one
  • Nov 30, 2008, 06:47 PM
    N0help4u

    Never confront her family.
    It will put a strain on your relationship and no good will come of it.
    Even if she is okay with it it won't work because they will form a bad opinion of 'an outsider' and a KID at that telling them what is best for their daughter. They will then make it hard for you to be together. You can tell them that you really care for her and that it is nice when families do things together. Just make it generalized conversation and do not imply anything.
    How old are you :D ? It sounds sweet that you care about her so much.
  • Nov 30, 2008, 06:50 PM
    bullet4mygrace

    Thank you NOhelp4u!
    Yeah your right... but then how do I put it into a conversation?
  • Nov 30, 2008, 07:03 PM
    N0help4u

    If a good time doesn't come up to bring it up it just might be better not to say anything. Sometimes just being a good caring person that is there for her is all you can do.

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