Hi there. Is this fair enough? My ex who I have not spoken to for over a year, suddenly comes back into my life by contacting my closest and best friend. I don't live in that town anymore, but I don't want to hear about my ex from my best friend. Anyway I have spoken to my best friend and he understands not to mention him and hopefully won't keep in contact. Anyway I can't tell people who to see and not to see, but I have moved on.. I don't want to be reminded of my ex. He has done this once before and I lost a friendship.. :(Why he can't find his own friends I'll never know... anyway I emailed my ex and got shirty with him, I got my point across to get out of my life. I don't want to know or hear about him! Anyway I feel so much better with the email and I feel closure. It's fair hey.. why should an ex be in touch with my best friend? Like move on ! I have earned the friendship with my best friend, but my ex just wants him as an "acquaintance" just to go out with? So find your own friends..

Your closest and best friend would normally tell this person to get lost, since he's your closest and best friend...

Maybe your ex taking your friends is a good thing to find out who your real friends are!