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  • Nov 28, 2008, 03:34 PM
    Lakyn529
    He is so hot and awsome!

    Hi I'm lakyn and well there's a boy I like and we have dated before.But I like him a lot more and he's like the hottest boy in the school.So what should I do to
    Him ask me out?
  • Nov 28, 2008, 07:24 PM
    jaime90

    Lakyn,
    Make SURE that you are serious about this boy. The truth is, if you get into a relationship with him and date him, and BOTH of you are not seriously planning on getting married, one of you will be left heartbroken. I say both because you may dream of marrying him one day, but he may not, and vice versa.

    DO NOT take any dating relationship seriously until you both are mature enough, and serious enough to say that it's lasting.
    That said, if you're just dating around and jumping from guy to guy, making friends with the boys, then just go out with him again. What should you do? If it's your personality, just go up and ask him out! Really, he can only say yes or no. If that's not your style, then wait for him to realize his feelings for you if he's got some, and wait for him to gather the courage to ask you out. In the meantime, strengthen your friendship with him.
  • Nov 29, 2008, 11:15 AM
    jaime90

    Not going to report you! It's good for you to hang out with mixed company- not just the girls. I'm just saying that you should treat it as you're getting to know someone better, and getting to know the opposite sex- just don't take it as a serious relationship.
  • Nov 29, 2008, 12:51 PM
    450donn

    Please remember this. The hot boy in school can likely be a looser by the time he is in his 30's with no ambition and no good paying job to support you. The geeks in school are more likely to be the ones that have the top paying jobs and the stable marriages. Yes, I understand that you are only 10, but remember that even the geeks can be great friends.
  • Nov 29, 2008, 12:56 PM
    liz28

    At 10, you shouldn't be dating boys. My daughter is your same age and I tell her that she can't have any boyfriends but she can have friends. There's nothing wrong with having friends but boyfriends are out. She had a boy in her class that like her and he use to buy her gifts but I made her returned them.

    Be friends and nothing more. At this age you might have crushes on boys but don't act on it. Boys are fresh now a days. Just curious, what is so hot and awesome about him?
  • Nov 29, 2008, 02:44 PM
    LifeChangesMan
    If your only 10, makes friends!!

    Jees, 10, lol I'm trying to think now whens the first time I kissed a girl!

    Hey pal, don't worry about this relationship let things flow, be friends, and maybe later on in life it'll blossom into something way better.

    Best of luck!

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