My boyfriend can't make up his mind
I posted last week about my boyfriend wanting to leave due to my temper and anger. We are still together but he is so indecisive about leaving. Everyday he asks me "What should I do?" and "I'm scared you won't change". I keep telling him that I'm trying harder and seeking help, reading books and that I can't make that decision for him to stay. All I know is that I have to focus on myself and he either wants to be in this relationship or he doesn't. I tell him that I want him to stay and see me through and stand by my side. The thing is, he has been asking me to deal with my anger for so long now and I am just now willing to make the effort. We live together so it's hard to give him that space. Any suggestions on what I should do at this point? I can't stand him changing his mind daily whether he should stay or move out. I want him to make a clear and conscience decision and I don't want to overbear him. If I completely back off, do my own thing, go out with friends and not be affectionate with him, he will assume that I don't care and that it's over. I'm so confused!