Ok so I met this girl about 5 months ago, and over time we became really good friends. We used to have such deep conversations about love and stuff. I used to give her advice about boys and we would always be engaged in deep conversations. She wrote me a message about how I'm smart and her other friends aren't as wise as me and she's gets happy when I text her and that she misses me and I'm a good friend and that I helped her realize that not all men are a**holes. On Thanksgiving she wished me a Happy Thanksgiving and said she was thankful for me because I was one of the nicest and most trustworthy friends she ever made and she can always count on and talk to me :) I remember asking her if she still thinks that all guys are a**holes and she told me she believes it less and that there was one guy who used to be nice to her and still is and she used to like him but now she doesn't know( I think that might be me) Idk I keep thinking I'm being put in the friend zone but in the back of my mind I'm thinking she likes me,( or maybe even loves me) she is just too shy to admit it. I don't know what should I do with her? I don't want to make our friendship weird but I want to know if I should go for it or leave it be...
Help me please...

How old are you, and do you guys hang out?

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Originally Posted by talaniman

How old are you, and do you guys hang out?

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I'm 18 she is 17
The times when we hang out are usually few and far
But she always says she misses me and says we should hang

Could you please tell her you like her?
But could you please be ready to be an everlasting friend also...
I hope you are meant to be boyfriend and girlfriend later :)

Anything is possible, and I think maybe in a month or two, after some more intimate hanging out, you could suggest DATING, exclusively.

Personally, I think your both going slow, and are getting to know each other the right way, and enjoying it. Why mess with success right now, but let your actions speak for you.

Your chances are pretty good, I would say, that your both getting on the same page.

Did I answer your question?? Probably not. Oh by the way, one post is enough to get our attention, 3 is overkill, and can be confusing.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Anything is possible, and I think maybe in a month or two, after some more intimate hanging out, you could suggest DATING, exclusively.

Personally, I think your both going slow, and are getting to know each other the right way, and enjoying it. Why mess with success right now, but let your actions speak for you.

Your chances are pretty good, I would say, that your both getting on the same page.

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Great! Its good because she shares all her most personal things with me and she is never
Reluctant to do so. When we hung out last it was awkward though because neither of us knew what to say to each other it was just weird... the thing that bugs me is sometimes when I comment her she says "thank you....." and other times she's like "awwww"
I don't know that just seems weird to me sometimes

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Did I answer your question??? Probably not. Oh by the way, one post is enough to get our attention, 3 is overkill, and can be confusing.

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I'm sorry about the multiple posts lol, I tried to edit a word and I couldn't get it till the third time and I haven't figured out how to delete the other posts

Hey, I like your story, I think you should just enjoy it right now, take it slow, it will last longer and deeper. And when the time is right, you two will both come together :)

Have a great time getting to know each other. Things will work the way they are supposed to, just don't get carried away.

Remember to keep balance between her and your own life and don't put her on a pedestal.

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Originally Posted by jmw0713

Remember to keep balance between her and your own life and don't put her on a pedistal.

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That's exactly right, making her the center of your universe is a really bad thing. Keep doing what you were doing before you met, and still enjoy your other friends.

Good one, JM, :)