Do happy relationships make me depressed?
I was in a long term relatively healthy relationship for 4 years. We both loved each other very much and both endured and tried to work through our final year with me struggling with depression. Eventually I broke up with him, even though I adored him. From the day I broke up with him, even though I was hurt about the relationship I didn't struggle with depression, not even for 1 day. For a year Ive been single and perfectly happy.
Now I've met a wonderful young man who adores me and we make each other so happy. We've only been together for 1 month and now Ive started getting depressed again.
What is going on?
I spent a few months in counselling last year and dealt with all the issues I had. Unless for some reason subconciously I want to be single I can't see any reason why this is happening. Neither this guy (or my ex) has given me any reason to be unhappy.
Please help!