Tenant 60 days past due on rent
I own a rental property in NY state. The tenant lost his job, has a family and so I did not want to kick him out at the holidays. I told him he needs to make the home available for showing at all times for new perspective tenants. I tried to give him 24 hours notice today for a showing tomorrow. He said it was inconvenient and he will not let us show the house. I can't afford to keep carrying the home especially if I'm going to have a problem showing to new perspective tenants. I can show where he is closing in on 60 days past due rent. I did not want to evict him and his family but it is becoming apparent I have no choice. What options do I have, do I need to go through the full eviction process if he is 60 days past rent, and if so, how do I start?
Thanks in advance for any help you can provide.