I have a 14 month bay girl and she is my life however me and my partner split up, I moved out so she could have the house anyway I was having my little girl 2 nights a week and sometimes three but she has made a decision as she does not want contact with me so she has stopped my baby staying over through the week I only been allowed to have her a couple of hours on the night which I don't think is resonable as she will pick her up at 8pm when she should be in bed any ideas?

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Originally Posted by mypr

I have a 14 month bay girl and she is my life however me and my partner split up, i moved out so she could have the house anyway i was having my little girl 2 nights a week and somtimes three but she has made a decision as she does not want contact with me so she has stopped my baby staying over through the week i only been allowed to have her a couple of hours on the night which i dont think is resonable as she will pick her up at 8pm when she should be in bed she is the one who says that she wants to keep her in a routine which she has been for the last 5 month but now she wants to change it i have shared parental responsibility/rights as her but now she wants to take control any ideas??

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also I even tried to ask her to do mediation but she won't give a reply

Do you have a support and custody order from court? If not, you should get one. Your rights and what she wants seem to not coincide.

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Originally Posted by stevetcg

Do you have a support and custody order from court? If not, you should get one. Your rights and what she wants seem to not coincide.

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I have full perantal responsibility as I'm on the birth certificate after 01/12/03 as she is only 14 month

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Originally Posted by mypr

i have full perantal responsibility as im on the birth certificate after 01/12/03 as she is only 14 month

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That is not the same as a support and custody order. That order details child support payments and visitation. Since your visitation seems to be taken away, it might be a good idea to get a legal order to protect your rights as your daughters father.