The rooten apple I am married to are getting divorced. He never does anything at home has never washed a dirty dish etc. his life is sitting at a computer. He throws is dirty dishes around never cleans up throws his empty pop cans where ever they land. His empty pop boxes pile up wherever he throws them they sit. Trash will sit 2 weeks before he will take out. I got tired of cleaning up after this piggy. Problem is since I quit cleaning up after him he takes pictures now and sends the pics over the internet to friends and family and then blames me for what the house looks like. He never takes pictures of his bedroom and the filthy dishes and dirty sheets he sleeps on he to lazy to wash haven't been washed now for 4months. I'm surprised the neighbors haven't called the city yet for what the yard looks like he refuses to pick up his dogs dump for at least 6months now and tells me to do it. I no longer do the yardwork no more. He doesn't take pictures of that mess either to send out. Anybody got any advice? I put up with this sick behavior for almost 3yrs now just feel that what he is doing behind my back is not right. :eek:

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Originally Posted by little d

the rooten apple i am married to are gettin divorced. he never does anything at home has never washed a dirty dish etc. his life is sittin at a computer. he throws is dirty dishes around never cleans up throws his empty pop cans where ever they land. his empty pop boxes pile up wherever he throws them they sit. trash will sit 2 weeks before he will take out. i got tired of cleanin up after this piggy. problem is since i quit cleanin up after him he takes pictures now and sends the pics over the internet to friends and family and then blames me for what the house looks like. he never takes pictures of his bedroom and the filthy dishes and dirty sheets he sleeps on he to lazy to wash havent been washed now for 4months. im surprised the neighbors havent called the city yet for what the yard looks like he refuses to pick up his dogs dump for at least 6months now and tells me to do it. i no longer do the yardwork no more. he doesnt take pictures of that mess either to send out. anybody got any advice? i put up with this sick behavior for almost 3yrs now just feel that what he is doin behind my back is not right. :eek:

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Yes, divorce him. Or put up with it. Or ignore him.

You have an Attorney (for the divorce) - have him removed from the home for exactly the reasons you've posted. His behavior is dangerous to your physical and mental health.

If you don't love him then don't stay with him, but if u do love him then try talking to him and if that doesn't work fight fire with fire

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Originally Posted by pinkytweak16

if you don't love him then dont stay with him, but if u do love him then try talking to him and if that doesn't work fight fire with fire

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This was posted in November 2008. Please keep an eye on the date when you answer.