I have a crush with this guy who is my schoolmate. We do not belong in the same batch so we don't talk, be together, communicate or something. I've got a crush on him, maybe, for 4 months now but for the past few days I've been noticing that whenever I look at him I feel that he also does. I can see his head facing towards my direction. I can't really look him straight in the eye cause I don't like my feelings to be obvious. One time also, I looked at him for awhile then cut it off but then when I looked at him again I saw him staring at me. When he passed by our room, I suddenly caught him looking at me.. it's like we made a brief eye contact. How can I know if he really likes me? Give me signs please... thanks!!

Hi, simpsonenight!

Do you ever have opportunity where you might be able to speak with this guy in person?

Thanks!

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Originally Posted by Clough

Hi, simpsonenight!

Do you ever have opportunity where you might be able to speak with this guy in person?

Thanks!

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Hi! I think I have... I mean we all have if we want to, but I doubt it.. as I've said we do not have any connection or what.. so it's really hard.

Is there any way that you might make a connection with him so that you could even speak with him?

Thanks!

Well, ha, I have this same issue, but anyway. OK, there is a chance he likes you, but when he looks at you it might just be because you looked at him. Get it? Although he might like you, I couldn't tell you honestly, I'm sorry to bring your hopes down, but I'm not sure if you'll be able to be together. I'm guessing your in high school, correct me if I'm wrong, and usually the "crowd" your in dictates about pretty much everything you do. Sad, but true. This is not always the case but, reality sucks hon.

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Originally Posted by tntdynamite

well, ha, i have this same issue, but anyway. ok, there is a chance he likes you, but when he looks at you it might just be because you looked at him. get it? although he might like you, i couldn't tell you honestly, im sorry to bring your hopes down, but im not sure if you'll be able to be together. im guessing your in highschool, correct me if im wrong, and usually the "crowd" your in dictates about pretty much everything you do. sad, but true. this is not always the case but, reality sucks hon.

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I didn't get what you mean on this part.
But, yeah, I'm in hs. Well, you also could relate to it? Really? Well, yeah.. sometimes I feel he just looks at me because he already has a hint that I like him..

.. sorry.. this should be really my post..

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Originally Posted by simpsonenight

i didn't get what you mean on this part...the "crowd" your in dictates about pretty much everything you do.

but, yeah, i'm in hs. well, you also could relate to it? really? well, yeah.. sometimes i feel he just looks at me because he already has a hint that i like him..

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I meant that usually (not always), in high school, if 1 person is popular and the other isn't they usually don't communicate except for a few words. And a lot of the time there are grudges that between groups, like one group won't like another for the simple reason that they are different. It's stupid and immature but social status and what other people think of you is really important in high school, even though it shouldn't be that way.
Maybe you should ask around and see if anyone knows for sure if he likes you.

So, you like the guy, but you don't know if he likes you? Why don't you just ask him? I know what your thinking after seeing that, but it's the truth. If he doesn't like you then get over him, and move on. If he says that he likes you, then go out! :) Why not? Yep... I know! Shy right, or too scared. Who cares what others think, if you know you like the guy... Will you just stop liking him if someone says he's ugly? No! :rolleyes:

Us guys like it when you come right out and say if you like them so tell him you like him and what's the worst outcome he says no