It was over a bunch of trust issues she had with me she says. I did nothing I never went partied or anything all I did was play a game and since I talked to girls on the game, she assumed that I was doing something wrong. I told her their just friends... she says "its weird that you talk to girls online" and thinks I'm trying to meet girls secretly.

So eventually she broke up with me saying this "I can't trust you and you can't trust me and i just dont think its going to work out" I said. "Ok then are you sure that's what you want." Then she says "yes i just can't trust you and i feel trapt like i can't go do what i want to do without you spying on me and having your friends follow me."

Thing is I don't follow her... and I don't have my friends follow her I'm like where did you get that... She says "You said it awhile ago."

I was angry when I said it and I told her I didn't do that and didn't mean it. I feel like she needs more time with her friends and I said she can do that she just needs to talk to me not just end it so quick. I can give her the space she needs if she needs it no problem I just hate letting her some times because she was doing stupid stuff. Its not like I don't trust her.

So pretty much I convinced her about how I don't have trust issues that I just want her to be honest with me. Then she "says okay but i don't know about my self i just can't trust you."

Right here I'm like there has to be another reason so I asked her is there another reason and she pretty much said no there isn't and that she loves me and cares about me but she just doesn't think its going to work out. She said but I need time to think about it.

Pretty much I know this much.
She doesn't love or like anyone else.
I'm not a wuss and beg for her back I stay mature and show no emotion.
I say that I love her and wouldn't do nothing to hurt her.
She doesn't trust me lol.
She does feel trapt but I know I can fix this easily with just talking.

Now I need every ones opinion on the situation I can add detail or what ever. Also I need advice on should I not give up and just give her her time and see what happens or assume that its over and move on? Thank you

Anyone have any opinions on the situation? Anything I know I really should give her time to decide and like we talk so much still and she still hangs with me we just don't kiss but she does hold my hand and puts her arms around me... Like she's really confusing right now... We talk all the time still txting on the phone everything is almost the same just less time together in person.

Was that world of warcraft?
That has messt up a lot of relationships and lives..

(great game though)

But anyway back to your point.
She sounds to me like she is the one with the issues

And she is to scared to tell you. She does not want to be with you anymore

She she wants to break up. With a fight. And make up some messt up reason.

I say you are doing the right thing.. this girl sounds like she is to young and way too much trouble than she is worth

How old are you?

Yes how old are you both, and how old is this relationship?

Im almost 20 and she just turned 18 lol. Yeah ima get rid of her today.

Oh sorry yeah we are 1 year into our relationship.

Update: Pretty much I talked to her and said that I just want her out of my life I can't have her just sitting on the side talking to me every second of the day when I need to get over her. I said it differently but I forgot the exact words I said. Anyway she said OK then we hung up. Then she text me saying she just needs time and she really wants to be with me she just doesn't want to be with me if she can't trust me because she just will get hurt. I told her I quit playing the game "World Of Warcraft" LOL JK! It was San Andreas Multi player Role playing game. I told her I quit since I got bored of it already and I know I shouldn't of been playing it so much like I was LOL. After I realized it was destroying my life and I got bored I pretty much quit... So iono what's going to happen I can either wait and see if she thinks she can trust me again or I can tell her there is no more us and cut her out and both of us move on. I really do think she wants to be with me because whenever I'm about to pull away She always asks me "Is this what you really want" "I just need time to think". Iono I'll give her, her damn time I guess wait awhile what's the worst that can happen? I been through this before so its actually not to hard since I know I've made it once I can do it again. :p

Well we are pretty much back together. Pretty easy don't follow your instincts or what anyone says lol, unless of course they actually know their . I thought it was going to take longer but after I took a breathe and realized what I need to do to actually win her back it took 3 days LOL.

So what did you do?

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Originally Posted by b0redum

Thing is i don't follow her...... and i don't have my friends follow her i'm like where did you get that..... She says "You said it awhile ago."

I was angry when i said it and i told her i didn't do that and didn't mean it.

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One thing you might want to know for future reference, many women will assume that a man is most honest when he is angry. Some women will take this to the extreme of going out of her way to make you angry just to see what you will say. That's why it's in your anger that you need to be most careful what you say.